Monday, April 27, 2009

To My Dear Friends...

To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE
給我單身朋友們

Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But
愛就像一隻蝴蝶。越要追牠,卻越要逃避。

if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can
如果就隨牠自由的飛,牠會在你最不注意時飛向你。

make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it
愛使人快樂,卻常傷害人。但只有在你把愛給了一個真正值得付出的人時,是最珍貴的。

to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.
所以,花點時間去選擇最好的他 /她吧


To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
給我那不是單身的朋友們

Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about
愛不能使他 /她成為一個 '完美的人 '

finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
它卻可以使你找到一個幫你成長的他 /她


To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
給我玩世不恭的朋友們

Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they
如果你不在乎,不要說 '我愛你 '。如果他們不在時,不要討論自已的感受

aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look
不要涉足會使他人心碎的生活。

in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is
說謊時,不要看著眼睛。

to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways...
最殘忍的事莫過於男人讓女人愛他,卻是逢場作戲。反之亦然 …


To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED
給我已婚的朋友們

Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.' Not 'where are you',
不要老是說 '這是你的錯 ',何不說說 '對不起 '。

but 'I'm right here.' Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.' Not 'I
不要老是問 '你去哪裡了 ',何不說說 '我就在這兒等著你 '。
不要老是問 '你怎麼會這麼作? ',何不說說 '我了解你 '。

wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'
不要老是說 '我希望你這麼做 ',何不說說 '我感謝你的一切 '。


To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
給我那已訂婚的朋友們

The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.
要真正衡量包容心,不是看在一起幾年了,而是要看彼此的敬愛


To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
給我心碎的朋友們

Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go.
心碎的時間和傷害的深度,完全取決於你自已。

The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
難的是,如何從中學習,而不是從傷痛中爬起。


To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
給我所有天真的朋友們

How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too
要如何戀愛? --就愛吧。不要欲言又止;要互相協調,不要太固執;

persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand,
要分享,且千萬不要有不公平;要了解,別命令;

and get hurt but never keep the pain.
受傷後不要再記恨。


To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
給我積極的朋友們

It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but
看到你所愛的他 /她和其他人很快樂使你心碎

it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
但知道你所愛的他 /她是和你在一起不快樂,令人更加的傷心。


To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
給我害怕去承認的朋友們

Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when
當你和他 /她分手時,愛受到傷害

someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you
當他 /她和你分手時,更是傷痛

love has no idea how you feel.
但傷害最深的是你所愛的他 /她完全無法了解你的感受


To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON
給我那還在等待的朋友們

A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to
人生最傷心的事,是你和他 /她愛情長跑了多年,最後的結局卻不如所望。

find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now he's not
如果他/ 她現在讓你覺得不值得付出,那麼一年,甚至十年後,都不會值得付出的。

going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.....
讓他 /她走吧


TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......
給我所有的朋友們

My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature, never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.
我竭誠祝福你們愛著一個誠實、強壯、成熟、衷心、有衝勁、保護你、積極、值得付出和無私的他 /她。


p/s: It's very true for me... Hope this sharing will make some of you who facing relationship problems will feel much better after reading this...

Sunday, April 26, 2009

爱·恨·难



天可不可能变亮?
虽然已习惯无止境的黑暗
明天我只凭想象
轻轻触摸你幸福微笑脸庞
即使命运早已向我摊牌
我还是要对他耍赖
愿意光线都被取代
换一点未来

只是爱你也难 恨你也难
割舍的勉强
过竟千帆 也许遗忘
我被伤的悲伤 哦...
爱你又难 想想的难
永远有遗憾
心口是谁的泪在淌
当是好梦终于做完

天没有可能再亮!
渐渐你喜欢这黑色的绝望
明天我不用期盼
紧紧抱住我给你我的温暖

p/s: Love... Hate... Indeed both make me suffering...

Friday, April 24, 2009

What's your Birthday Flower?

I found out this interesting article on TBP and would like to keep it as my collections and I will do the updates on the 1st of every month starting from 1st May... Do check it out about your birthday flower! ;)

Birthday Flowers: Information On Birth Month Flower
The Victorians developed the language of flowers during the highly-conservative period of the Victorian era. This was done because they were strongly restricted by the rules of etiquette when it was considered totally inappropriate to express feelings of affections and love. The language of flowers thus evolved when a message was assigned to a specific flower such as a violet. Now with the help of flowers, lovers could send hidden romantic messages. Read on for information about the birth flowers associated with each month...

Birthday flowers brighten a birthday with colour and aroma. Here is information about birthday flowers, their meanings and the messages associated with them. *Updates monthly*

January: Carnation
February: Violet
March: Jonquil
April: Sweet Pea
May: Lily
June: Rose
July: Larkspur
August: Gladiolus
September: Aster
October: Calendula
November: Chrysanthemum
December: Narcissus

p/s: I love to do my own collections on this kind of article...
More coming up soon! ;)


Monday, April 20, 2009

Great Adventure: The North Island Volcanic Plateau

I had received an email from my net friend couple weeks ago, regarding his latest adventure to the middle of the North Island with some nice photos of volcanic plateau attached in the email... Just do some sharing with you all. Emm.. I think he wouldn't mind.. :p

Here is the short description about the journey (taken from the email) :
" ...In March, couple of my work mates travel to the middle of the North Island to go on a 20km hike through our volcanic plateau. This walk is described as the best one day walk in New Zealand as it passes through couple of volcanoes reaching the height of 1900 metres above sea level. We started with the shuttle dropping off at the start of the track at 7am and didn’t finish until 4pm. So it is a very long walk. Many many people do this walk every year especially during the warmer months as it is not covered in snow. I hope the photos will show you how beautiful some of the scenery is.... "










Honestly, I feel grateful to know him as my net friend... Indeed, he is a great friend and always share with me his traveling adventure and we get to know each other through the same hobby- traveling... And we share the same dream too - that is to travel all around the world... Seem that he started the journey first before me... Thanks for the great photos Ivan... :)

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Chivas Mixed Green Tea?

Chivas? I ever been fooled by my ex-colleague whom had told me that chivas is one kind of soda drink and it won't make the person drunk. Hahah.. It was few years back when I still have O% knowledge towards all those alcoholic drinks. Now don't ever try to fool me on those achoholic drinks!

Usually when I drink chivas mixed up with coca-cola or sprite, in the end I'm still alright... But last few days when I drink chivas mixed up with green tea, only drink for few glasses.. I already felt strange.. Not fly high in the sky... Just that I feel something wrong and few minutes later... I had to rush to washroom... Errr.. I think you can guess what happen next? I had vomit badly... I was wondering is it because my body can't accept the mixture of the chivas and green tea? It was totally spoilt my entertainment night!

It's strange as my friend told me that green tea can help to reduce the drunk. But what happen to me? I even more worse when I drink chivas mixed with green tea... Maybe I should do some research on it to find out the reason... Well, for the next time, I must remind myself not to drink chivas mixed with green tea... Err.. But still I prefer chivas mixed with coca-cola which taste nicer to me.. Hehe.. Just make sure that I am not boom boom shake shake in the club... ;p


Monday, April 13, 2009

Online Boutique

Yesterday went for shopping with my bestie... Not purposely to accompany her as I am as well need to do some shopping for myself to attend my another bestie wedding which on coming June. Cant wait for the day to come as she's my bestie among all my bestie... Congrats M babe! Before this she had "booked" me become her bridesmaid but at last canceled as I could not make it to come to her place during the wedding gown fitting... and at last her sister become her bridesmaid. Well, I missed out the chance but yet my another bestie want me become her bridesmaid too... Maybe I only can be a bridesmaid and never be a bride for the rest of my life... Nooooooo...

Okay.. Back to the shopping topic.. Yet I still can't get for myself the dress to attend the wedding... Why so hard to do shopping for the dress? Well.. Let me be more specific! I am looking for the dress either in pink or purple colour, not too sexy, not too conservative and must look elegant! Haha.. Ok, why must pink or purple? Not because I'm too obsess towards those colour.. It's because the theme colour for the wedding is pink or purple, that's the reason! It's too hard for me eventho I love pink so much... When I found the colour that I want, yet the dress not the type that I want... When I found the type of dress that I want, sure got problem with the colour... :( Helpppppppp!!!!


My friends had suggested to me to try search it online. I spent whole day sitting in front my computer surfing the net. And still I can't find the dress that I want... Hemmppph.. But I found one site that's really great! The fashion available at that site caught my attention.. If I found the website early I am very sure that I will overspent! HAHAH~ The clothes available there all looks gorgeous! It absolutely suit my taste... And I am about to do my first online shopping here. I still couldn't find the dress I want as some of it SOLD OUT... but there's still few clothes I like and I already placed my first order. Well, feel free to visit the website... Malaysia Online Boutique - Irenelim Fashion. I like it! How about you? ;)

Irenelim Fashion

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Love = Pain

When you feel down or upset, please count the stars in the sky... One, two, three, four,.... you counted till you unsure the figure then you'll feel better soon... Maybe this only works on me... But how if there's raining or no stars in the sky? Drunk yourself with chivas?

Love is pain... Love is beautiful lie... Love is just a game... Am I right? If not, please correct me... True love never exist in this world... In fact, it's just a fairy tales to make you blind...

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Another Tsumani?

Please be more cautious...

I had received a bunch of emails regarding this. I don’t know the credibility of the content, but just beware...

Below is the content on the message:

“Hello there. I just wanted 2 let you know that please stay away from the beaches all around in the month of July. There is a prediction that there will be another tsunami hitting on July 22nd. It is also when there will be sun eclipse. Predicted that it is going 2 be really bad and countries like Malaysia (Sabah & Sarawak), Singapore, Maldives, Australia, Mauritius, Si Lanka, India, Indonesia, Philippines are going 2 be badly hit. Please try and stay away from the beaches in July. Better 2 be safe than sorry. Please pass the word around. Please also pray for all beings.”

Thanks and have a nice day.

Bless you~

Friday, April 10, 2009

你的承诺...





乌云遮蔽了天空
窗外又是阴雨时候
伞下的恋人中
不再有你我手牵手
一切过了 太久
我们的十字路口
下一站是谁在等候
你我的方向盘 却向着
相反的彼岸
终点还是 分开
告别你我离开之后
这回忆可以保留
当初那美好的感动
你说你记住了
不为彼此难过
过各自的生活
oh baby~
你答应我的我都记得
但是你却忘了你的承诺
不是说好彼此都不再联络
谁都别再 犯错
是我的固执让你难过
但是分手却也无法选择
我走了以后
你要好好生活
不要想我 也别再哭了...

我们的十字路口
下一站是谁在等候
你我的方向盘 却向着
相反的彼岸
终点还是 分开
告别你我离开之后
这回忆可以保留
当初那美好的感动
你说你记住了
不为彼此难过
过各自的生活
oh baby~
你答应我的我都记得
但是你却忘了你的承诺
不是说好彼此都不再联络
谁都别再 犯错
是我的固执让你难过
但是分手却也无法选择
我走了以后
你要好好生活
不要想我 也别再哭了...

你答应我的我都记得
但是你却忘了你的承诺
不是说好彼此都不再联络 (不再联络)
谁都别再 犯错
是我的固执让你难过
但是分手却也无法选择
我走了以后
你要好好生活
不要想我 也别再哭了...

p/s: why you made such promises if you just want to break it... and in the end hurt me deeply... can you let me know the reason?

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

I Stay In Love...




Why do I stay
Why do I stay in love?
Oh, baby
Baby, I stay in love with you

Dying inside 'cause I can't stand it
Make or break up, can't take this madness
We don't even really know why
All I know is, baby, I try and try so hard to keep our love alive

If you don't know me at this point
Then I highly doubt you ever will
I really need you to give me
That unconditional love I used to feel
It's not mistaking, we're just erasing from our hearts and minds

And I know we said let go but I kept on hanging on
Inside I know it's over, you're really gone
It's killing me 'cause there ain't nothing that I can do
Baby, I stay in love with you

And I keep on telling myself that you'll come back around
And I try to front like, "Oh well,"each time you let me down
See I can't get over you now no matter what I do
But baby, baby, I stay in love with you

Na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na
Baby, I stay in love with you

It cuts so deep, it hurts down to my soul
My friends tell me I ain't the same no more
We still need each other when we stumble and fall
How we gon' act like what we had, ain't nothing at all now

Hey, what I wanna do is ride shotgun next to you
With the top down like we used to hit the block, proud in the SUV
We both know our heart is breaking
Can we learn from our mistakes?
I can't last one moment alone, now go I know

We said let go but I kept on hanging on
Inside I know it's over, you're really gone
It's killing me 'cause there ain't nothing that I can do
Baby, I stay in love with you

And I keep on telling myself that you'll come back around
And I try to front like "Oh well," each time you let me down
See I can't get over you now no matter what I do
But baby, baby, I stay in love with you

We said let go but I kept on hanging on
Inside I know it's over, you're really gone
It's killing me 'cause there ain't nothing that I can do
Baby, I stay in love with you

And I keep on telling myself that you'll come back around
And I try to front like, "Oh well," each time you let me down
See I can't get over you now no matter what I do
But baby, baby, I stay in love with you

Na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na
Na, na, na, na, na
I stay in love with you...

p/s: Slowly... I'm letting you out of my life...

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Kiss Me Through The Phone



Soulja Boy Tell 'Em

Baby you know that i miss you, I wanna get with you tonight
But I cannot baby girl and that's the issue
Girl you know I miss you, I just wanna kiss u
But i can't right now so baby kiss me thru the phone, I'll see you later on
Kiss me thru the phone, see you when I get home

Baby I know that you like me, you my future wifey
Soulja Boy Tell 'Em, yeah
You can be my Bonnie, I can be your Clyde
You could be my wife, text me, call me

I need you in my life, yeah all day everyday I need ya
And every time I see ya my feelings get deeper
I miss ya, I miss ya, I really wanna kiss you but I can't
Six, seven, eight, triple nine, eight, two, one, two

Baby you know that I miss you, I wanna get with you tonight
But I cannot baby girl and that's the issue
Girl you know I miss you, I just wanna kiss u
But i can't right now so baby kiss me thru the phone, I'll see you later on
Kiss me thru the phone, see you when I get home

Baby I been thinking lately so much about you
Everything about you, I like it, I love it
Kissing you in public, thinking nothing of it
Roses by the dozen, talking on the phone

Baby you so sexy, your voice is so lovely
I love your complexion, I miss ya, I miss ya, I miss ya
I really wanna kiss you but I can't
Six, seven, eight, triple nine, eight, two, one, two

Baby you know that I miss you, I wanna get with you tonight
But I cannot baby girl and that's the issue
Girl you know I miss you, I just wanna kiss u
But i can't right now so baby kiss me thru the phone, I'll see you later on
Kiss me thru the phone, see you when I get home

She call my phone like
Da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da
We on the phone like
Da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da

We taking pics like
Da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da
She dial my number like
Da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da
Six, seven, eight, triple nine, eight, two, one, two

Baby you know that I miss you, I wanna get with you tonight
But I cannot baby girl and that's the issue
Girl you know I miss you, I just wanna kiss u
But i can't right now so baby kiss me thru the phone, I'll see you later on
Kiss me thru the phone, see you when I get home

p/s: Yea.. i miss you too...

Monday, April 6, 2009

Tears are words the heart can't express...

When you feel wanna cry, what would you do? Even though you know it's not worth for your tears... I rather cry it out then to stop my tears to drop down... Most of people will need tissue paper or handkerchief but not me... Why? Because every time I feel want to cry I will take a shower... Maybe that's the best way to save tissue paper... and also the best way to waste water... Hahah! (Fake Laugh)

Honestly, I feel better after that... just like the water washed away all my sadness... Just hoping I won't getting sick by doing this too often. I still believed there always sunshine after the rain... Maybe it's just not the time yet. Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while, so that we can see LIFE with a clearer view again...

“When the tears fall, it's so easy to wipe off... but how do I erase the stain from my heart?”

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Yeah... I'm indecisive!

Dont ask me why as I really don't know why? What I can say is that I'm indecisive... If you get to know me, you'll know what I mean... Believe it or not, I can spend more than an hour time just to choose between two things... Sometimes my friends will get very annoying when go shopping with me... But most of my bestie know my 'style' and that's why they are in my bestie list... LOLz... That's why I need a boyfriend or partner whom can stand with my attitude and can help me to minimize the time for me to make decision..

My last ex-boyfriend done a very good role when he decided everything for me and I am satisfy with the final decision... Well, I also think myself very weird too... That's me! After the final decision, I won't regret with it and not even think about it after that... And sometimes when it's become too critical for me to choose, I will take both... For some cases, I rather not to choose both items and when I got home... My mind will me 24 hours thinking about it and I will keep on regreting about it until I can get back to the shop to buy the item. This is really a bad attitude... My friends or even some of the salesgirl ever said that I will hardly to choose my future life partner too... Hahah... Hopefully not when I really met the right one! :)Why I suddenly thinking to post up this topic? Hahah... The story come out like this... It's because the incident happened this morning when I went to shop for some accesories for myself... It was the Swarovski crystal bracelet...
And I took almost an hour to decide which combination of colour and the type of beads pattern that suit me... and this give chance for me to get to get know another new friend... Haha! She was working in that shop and she entertain me and I can see that she's very patient with me... :P Until an hour later, her boss came out and warned me to make my decisions a.s.a.p as I was disturbing his worker to do her job... This really make me unhappy! I was thinking to get away from the shop without buying the thing... But when think back the girl spend time entertained me that I changed my mind... But I think it was not wrong as during the hour no customer enter the shop, and I have right to spend my time longer to pick the best choice!

Grrrrr... Really hate that old boss!!! I won't recommend my friends to come to that shop! And at last because of that old boss spoilt my mood, then I just pick the combination of soft pink and clear crystal. Well, no choice because I love pink! The other combination would be pink and purple but then it looked so contrast that cant really focus on the pink... I hope I made a right choice... :S My mum said it suit my skin and me myself still think it just nice only... Nevermind, next time can try other combination of colour and just make sure not go to the same shop again! Emmm.. I named my new Swarovski crystal bracelet as "pinkfairy"...

The morale of the story... If you are indecisive just as me, please refer the Swarovski colour chart before proceed to the shop to pick the right combination of colour... ;) I just did this survey just after I back from the shopping... LOLz..

Saturday, April 4, 2009

04.04.09... It's just another Saturday!

4th of April 2009... 04.04.09

It's just another Saturday and nothing much interesting things happen today... Today is the actual day for "Qin Ming" and I decided not to go anywhere tonight as I don't feel to go out too. One of my friend of friend invited me to go out tonight and I had rejected him.. He was quiet mad that make me feel a bit annoying as he made assumption that I don't want to go out with him because my friends not going out too... Gosh... What a very-not-matured thinking!

As I wake up this morning, I got a sms from my bestie to cancel this morning shopping plan... Ok great, I can continue my sleep a bit later but few minutes later... I got a called from another bestie asked me out in the afternoon... See... I really must walk out from my room... It's been nearly 4 months I have not meet her since last December... It's been 4 months also I kept her belated birthday present which I should hand in to her last Christmas.... Hahah! What a belated gift... -_-" Okok.. Not my fault as both of us busy with our work... What a lucky day today that we can arranged this meeting.

Nothing much we talked about... She just complaint to me that her engagement ring not longer fit her finger as she getting more "cute" now... Haha.. So, the conclusion I made is her fiance treat her very well and I not need to worry about this bestie... I still remember how she sleepless for almost one week to decide whether want to accept the bf proposal... Not that she not love the bf but is because she too love the bf. Why I say so? Because I know the reason why she took for that long to make the decision... Why? My answer still the same... Because she loves the bf so much. Ok... Let's end this topic! You soon will know why when the time is come... -End-




Friday, April 3, 2009

Sometimes....

Sometimes I really don't know what you're thinking about....
Sometimes I unsure what you really want from me...
Sometimes I wonder what's the meaning of love to you...
Sometimes I doubt whether we should continue on or just stop here...
But always I will think why love life so painful... -_-"

--- Sweet Lavender ---

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

I love April Fool...

Sorry for the crappy updates that I have been posted before... as I am very really truly busy with my job... How I wish.. (How I really really wish...) To escape to a place that NO ONE can find me which enable me to take a long break as long as I want... At this moment, the only place exist is 'My Zzzz @ Dream' which only few hours a day... I WANT MORE.... :S

And today is 1st of April which I never forget that it's APRIL FOOL... No matter how busy I am, you... you... or anyone of you will not able to FOOL me... If you don't believe, try me then! LOLz... It's been long long long time ago I've been fool.. Kind of missed it... But I can't pretend to be fool just to give you chance to fool me... Hehehe! Every year, I wont missed to get a victim to be fooled. Only one... then it's enough... Sorry babe to be chosen as the lucky one this year... She's the 1st one greet me "Happy April Fool!" this morning... and less than half and hour later she became my 1st victim... LOLz... She's kind of blur but still it create a cheerful morning for all of us to start our working day...

Less than 4 hours... So, try me now! I want to be a victim... Hahah.. Maybe I am lucky not to be fooled during April Fool but it's even more unlucky when you get to be fooled in your love life... I rather to be a victim for April Fool but not in love... Happy April Fool everyone!

p/s: If you just want to fool me in love matters, I beg you... Please stay away from me. I can't bear any heartache...